When it comes to who is happier -- parents or child-free people -- most of the research up until now has concluded that it is the childless who are more satisfied with their overall lives.
As a married mom of two, I always find myself reacting a bit defensively to that research.
"I'm happy," I say to
myself. I may be stressed, sleep-deprived and sorely in need of "me"
time, but I am very satisfied with my life. Isn't it possible that I
could be just as happy as someone without kids -- even if they have more
time to sleep and take care of themselves?
According to two new studies, the answer might be yes and no.
But...what do you think? Write 200 words about it, advantages and disadvantages.
All couples want to have children, but, they are going to be happier? In the next paragraphs I´m going to explain the advantages and the disadvantages of have children.
ResponderEliminarIn the one hand, the advantages are that children transmit happiness and will make you happier in the sense that they are all day smiling. And other advantage could be the happiness of the family, like the grandparents, to the grandparents there aren´t better than have grandsons.
In the other hand, may be the children could make you happy, but you have more responsibilities than without children, for example, children start crying in the night and you have to go to see what happen, and may be you can´t sleep this night, or you can´t go out with friends or family in the night because children go to sleep early ,this are the disadavantages.
To sum up, you have to put all advantages and all disadvantages in a scale, and choose the option that you thing is the best for you, have children and be happier or live without children and have less responsabilities,that depends of the person.
More advantages and disadvantages that we should first see if we are actually mature enough to form a new being, not a toy you buy.
ResponderEliminarThe main disadvantages are: Prosesa from pregnancy is something very beautiful give you joy learn a lot with them always somebody q will tell you I love you "papa" help you, and live experiences with them that will be unforgettable, having a child is something very nice but patience nesecita time and dedication. but the advantages I more stressed are: ensure that your life has meaning and reasons if that suddenly seems that they are not: new perspectives and show how to see the world changes.
and the main disadvantages are that quiet anymore not gonna sleep in your life. You're going to suffer every time they get sick. You spend much money on them. You will work much for them and in them. They'll eat all your energies.
conslusion but with the two is much better to have children
I think those who have no claim to be happier and, as you know them? If you do not have children do not know which way are happier. In contrast, parents who have children, have lived in a time of your life without children and know what they really feel. For my part, I think that if most of the population is responsible for having children is that they are sure that they will be happy with them. True, you can get to take a long time for you but you enjoy yourself and also your children's life and change those without children will come a time when you get tired of your day to day, ie they get tired of sleeping out more more etc.
ResponderEliminarAnother test is parents who lose their children, they lose part of their lives and many others happiness forever.
Finally, all those who are parents, they say that the happiest moments of his life was the day their children were born.
According to my point of view I am not sure about the right answer for this question, people without kids are happier than people with kids or the opposite.
ResponderEliminarThe advantages to have not kids:
You can travel more because you have more time, more money and you must not worried about what can happen to them.
You can sleep in the morning or in the afternoon and they do not disturb your self with their cry or their questions.
The disadvantages to have not kids:
You can feel alone.
Studies said that your life will be shorter.
Even though in my opinion the answer might be yes, because people with kids are more alive, more complete, happier and they have a good sense in their life to work hard.
For both, for men or for women to have kids is the following step to the future, no men do no want to die without descendant and for the health of women to hear her biological clock.
So the definitive answer is: people with kids are happier.
SOFIA PUJOL CUESTA 2A
Some disadvantages of having children are for example, that you can’t sleep as you used to because you have to pay attention to your babies or children. Also, you can’t keep going out at night because someone has to take care of them. Other negative point is that some fights can appears among parents because they don’t agree about the children punishment. During the firth months, parents have to make a big effort. The most negative things about having children is that the birth is too painful.
ResponderEliminarOn the positive side, when you have a child, you joint more to your couple, to your family, and It is a very beautiful experience. You stay more at home, you start having a more familiar life style and also you can teach them all you have learnt during your live.
In conclusion, I´m a teenager so right now, I don´t think about having or not babies.
Lorena fusulier 1ºC
Currently the majority of married people are stopping to have children due to the economic crisis we are going through.
ResponderEliminarFormerly, couples used to have 5 or 10 children and now they usually have 1 or 2 or even none.
I do not think people without children have to be more happy, since the children's happiness is what brings joy to the house. Although most parents get tired of the children because we are very annoying, we are really important to them. Another disadvantage of not having children is the family quickly ends up having no descendants.
Being mother for the first time could be one of the most beautiful life´s experiences that you could have. Nowadays, many people decide to have children and I hope, they know what this means.
ResponderEliminarOn the one hand, a first-timer mother or father as parents who have three children could have many advantages. The main one is the simple fact of creating a new life. When time goes by, you can transmit your habits even your smile. Moreover your reactions, your eye´s colour, your hair form or the beauty mark you have on top of your lips. Furthermore, you can spend your time playing with your children or telling them tales.
On the other hand, having children has many disadvantages if you are not an expert. First of all, during the first years, you will have very little sleep until your baby get used to the family timetable. Secondly, you will feel stressed because of the work a baby means. Moreover, having a child will cost too much money all economies are not ready to afford.
To sum up, having children suppose lot of advantages and disadvantages. You just have to think you are creating a new life and your responsibility is to take care of him until the end of time.
Luis Venegas Pérez 1ºC
ResponderEliminarPEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS ARE HAPPIER
There are advantages and disadvantages of having a baby.
In fact I don’t know what are the advantages and disadvantages because I don’t know what is the responsibility of a baby yet and I don’t want to know it yet I don’t imagine I with two babies now this is crazy but in the future… who knows?
I suppose that one day I will married, I will have babies, have a job…
I know that a baby when is very small is a lot of work and money, change the nappies, make food, support cries, educate him or her…
I think it is good that some people can decide if they have a baby or not because this means that the society has evolved in mentality. A lot of women work a lot of hours, out of the house, they are more independent…
In conclusion I think that each person can decide what do with her life if have a baby or not. A lot of people are very happy without babies and a lot of people can´t imagine live without babies.
When you haven´t children you have all time the day for you and you haven´t that you concerned by anyone. Your can study, that now is very important study much for get a degree for you can get a job well paid and you get very money for you to form a family with you house and you can independent. Also you can leave to party with you friends and you haven´t responsibilities.
ResponderEliminarWhen you have a children all is different because already have that share the time with your children. You have that be all the time with the children and you haven´t time for you.
Although to have a kid is very good because you have company and give you love, it change completely the life.
Being a mother is a natural part of life and almost all women at some of your life will want to start a family and have children. Some want to have more, some less but after all have them and enjoy them because it is a decision that will always accompany.
ResponderEliminarOn the one hand I think that being a mother is a wonderful thing and everyone has to experience because even though I do not know what it is to have a child I think it's the person that's going to want in your life and is a very important step important because it means that a person dependent on you.
Moreover I think it has a lot of negative things because children away long time and instead of being able to go to the gym, barbershop, walk or just shopping you have to take care of your children and be aware of them to take them to school, make food, clean their clothes ... I also believe that children suffer when you fear that something might happen to them in the street when out with friends.
Yet I still think that having children is very nice and the benefits definitely outweigh the disadvantages.
In my opinion, couples with children are more united because between them apart from the love and affection they have another link arises more in common: a son or daughter. This is quite satisfactory for couples because they feel more connected to each other because they have a child together , but unfortunately for other common child marriages that were supposed martyrdom and is the reason why separate or constantly fighting when it should be the other way , think of the child, especially in those circumstances really bad happens .
ResponderEliminarIt is also true that couples without children are satisfied with their life in general because they do not have the problems that cause the children daily and as they become more these problems increase . But I still believe that to really show the love you have, it is quite nice to have a baby because the joys that give children are compensated with problems.
The disadvantages of having children think they are mainly the lack of sleep, the money involved raising a family with children, arguments and fights ... so you do not have children himself better off taking off all these drawbacks siene . Finally , I think that having a child or more is what best you can have in this life.
For my taste it is similar to have children or not have children to be happy. But I think having children gives a plus of more happiness a mother, if it is true that when you are pregnant, those nine months goes it very badly, but I think that a mother is very happy with his son. The person who has no children also can be happy, I think, not all the happiness gives it to having children and also having children is something very difficult to maintain and raise them well so that they grow and are a good people and have a good future. For my life I would like very much to have children and form a great family to enjoy with them, but if it is truth that is very difficult to have a family and be the perfect parent. I think that in life you have to see many things to accept the great responsibility of being parents.
ResponderEliminarIn conclusion all kinds of people can be happy with or without children and happiness comes with personal happiness, everyone has to have what you want. Have children for my da more happiness that not having them but there are many type of people
In my opinion for a mother to have a child must be the most beautiful and important of his life. On one hand I recognize that it is a big responsibility and that changes your life dramatically. Today the woman is incorporated into the labor market and their career has an important place in your life having a child makes it very difficult to continue with these activities in the same way although there are laws now that the benefit as reduced working hours. In Españana esmuy yet difficult task to combine a working mother. On the other hand is a unique experience, an absolute surrender to another person that depends entirely on you and at the same time makes you grow as a person and acquired responsibility.
ResponderEliminarParents with children have the need to be more united as they have to make their children happy and between them to prevent trouble for the children, but it's true and I agree that people without children having no arguments between them for the children, who have more time for them to not have to watch for anyone, and can travel, go out and do whatever they want, but must be linked together. This is often seen in marriages that are often childless married a few years and then decide to have children, and that is where the problems begin. Come on, that we who are to blame for all the failures of the married. I'd like if you were married, having my children and enjoy them every day as if it were the last. But if I have children I will have to enjoy my family and travel and go everywhere with her, without losing a minute, as you never know when it might come a son.
ResponderEliminarPeople without children can be happy as people who have them . In my opinion everyone has their reasons to be happy about people without children have no right to say whether they are happier without them because they have never had and do not know what life is like with children, I am one of those people and I really like to spend a period of my life without them and then you can enjoy the happiness of being a mother and having a family. People with children have a say in how your life is happier because they have lived the two stages of life , life with children and childless life .
ResponderEliminarLife when you have children is quieter , you can dedicate time to yourself and make plans and go on a trip with your friends or spend money on things for you . However, if you have children they have to reject all that kind of stuff and spend it money on food and clothes for them . But for me everything has its good reasons. For example having a child makes you feel happy and gives you good reason to feel good about him happy . Marialuisa Calero Carrere 2D
Carlos Fernandez Navarro
ResponderEliminarI as a child , I think a lot often upset my parents and also remove them time and money because having a child is an investment , and all this could use them for divertise . Although my parents have always been with us happy and making plans with us, which all parents do . They are always smiling and always prefer us to go with them to not Let's go . When we let them get so sad that we are showing the most happiness and are very conetntos have 3 children and they would have loved to have more . People who do not have children have all the time for them and their family and friends , being able to sleep more , but I left party and make other plans with children can hardly do. I think people who do not have children what happens is that they fear that big responsibility , although my children would have a great effort and sacrifice in my life like the other people , but it sure would be the nice effort but you could do it is to raise a baby yourself this .
To have children or haven´t children isn´t related to the happiness, every person is different, some persons prefer living through the life mas crazy without any relationship and without any type of commitment .other persons prefer living with his pair and his children having a good work and one good house where to live with his great family.About my opinion I think that when we are young we must enjoy the life without any type of commitment and without worries .but as soon as already you are adult you must be more centered, to marry, to have children and a good work.The advantages of not having children it is that your you can live mas calmly without worrying for them, you can spend all the money that you have in you.For the other hand the children go out of you, you take care of them and you want them . they are very innocent and they are always happy, what they will make you happy too.For my it is very important to marry and to have a family because I think that absolutely the children give the happiness, to have a family to which love , they will be with you in the best and the worst moments
ResponderEliminarRosa Moreno Damas, 2º A
ResponderEliminarWell, having children is natural in humans, it is necessary to continue procreating the species. However, it is a big responsibility and it means depriving yourself of many things, but is it worth it?
On the one hand not having children lets you have more freedom, going out at night, spending the money on yourself, not having to keep an eye on someone... You do not need a family car or a big house, whether you live alone or if you're married to someone and not feel like children, you will live in a smaller place, which therefore will mean that you spend less money.
However, it is an affection that you will not have. The children provide love and they are important to the growth of people. It teaches you things that you will not be able to learn anywhere, and even if it involves more effort in general, having children is a beautiful experience in life. People are instinctively prepared to have children and care for them, and it is true that we are very selfish sometimes, but the fact of giving a person, or two, or whatever it is a personal satisfaction.
In conclusion, I personally think that people need to have children, because they help them to improve, to share, to love, to surrender to someone, and above all, to live.
In my opinion: parents with children are much happier because they can enjoy the happiness of their children and to see their children grow up with them. is true that it is now common for many young parents are willing to have one or more children but are also the economic situation of many young people who are not very good and do not know whether they can cope with having children and keep them that counts . But even so I still think children are wonderful and that the more the better. And that starting a family is something unique and incredible and watch your children grow up and become parents some copies of your grandchildren is very realativa happiness but for me my happiness keychain ten years including my children and my husband because well that 'll be happy and I want to live those moments. It is true that many children sleep problems occur when small teenage rebellion when , for some studies are complicated but good things are much better than all those mini problems.
ResponderEliminarI think that probably people who marry have the intention of having children at some point in their lives. There are advantages and disadvantages in this respect. At first the main advantage of having children is that it creates a stronger bond between the couple. It seems to unite the couple more. The couple puts all its effort in bringing up their children and setting goals to try and achieve. Seeing your children growing up must give great satisfaction as well. Those happy moments and perhaps less happy moments are also part of sharing everything with one another. When the children grow up they will always be willing to share their time with their parents and will help them whenever they need it. When the parents are elderly or ill they will be at their side for taking care of them. Parents as well will always be there for their children when they need it. I think this bond creates such satisfaction that the couple feels very united. The disadvantages of having children also exist. Probably the main one is loss of liberty. When a couple is without children they can do whatever they like much easily. For example they
ResponderEliminarcan travel anywhere without organizing so much. The preparation of meals is also easier as well as cleaning and ironing. Another thing if you have children you will have to deal and confront any problems that arise. This may be due to illnesses or education etc. This may not be an easy job nor a nice one. There are clear advantages and disadvantages of having children so I think that each individual couple has to think about this very carefully and decide what is best for them.
Javier Bermejo 2ºA
Most couples want to have at least one child, everyone wants to leave offspring in this world and we all want to be grandparents , but before having a child should ask yourself some questions , who want to be your parent? What age I want to have it? Boy or girl ? choose that name ? ...
ResponderEliminarA baby has advantages and disadvantages , advantages and disadvantages to me are these :
the advantages of having a baby is the love they give us, leave this world of transcendence in your " genes " That children transmit happiness and will make you happier in the sense That They are smiling all day , but not all are advantages to raise a son has many responsibilities and disadvantages as hildren start crying in the night and you have to go to see what happen , no power output of evening party with friends or family for having to take care of the baby, spend money on clothes , education, fun for the child, birthday gifts ...
In conclusion you must make a list of pros and cons about having a baby and tell your partner the perfect place to have the baby and agree both times. Jose Luis Girón
When we think about children, there are people that only see good points and others that do not find anything good. Obviously, there are advantages and disadvantages of having a baby but all depends on the person and the situation that is living.
ResponderEliminarFirst of all, we can all find good points of having children. Everybody says that see how your child is growing up and starts talking and walking makes you feel the happiest person in the world. Moreover, when they become teenagers and adults, people usually feel proud when the see their baby is an adult that can live by himself and is a good person.
On the other hand we can find that a baby in a family does not mean happiness always. Maybe the parents are teenagers and have a child can provoke that they stop studying or a business person that do not have time to breath, it is impossible to talk about looking after a little person. Furthermore, it is a lot of responsibility: health, nutrition, education and so on. Not everybody is ready for that so it is a decision that must be taken after a lot of reflection.
To sum up, having a baby is one of the best moments in everybody's life but you have to be very sure about what are you going to do. It is a life, not a doll.
I think it should be mandatory to have children , a home full of happiness for children. I am from a large family , my house and we are 7 and I used to, if I'm alone I do not feel good. when more would have a big family with a big house and a beautiful wife . I think people without children do not become happy, also when will these people do not want children to be more older who will care ? and above all, how nice it is to go at Christmas the whole family to eat together and all meet again.
ResponderEliminarPeople who have no children and are usually colder , more closed ... also can be some case for couples who can not have children naturally, but that today and there are ways you can have children ; adopting artificially ...
In the times in which we live is normal to think that having children is expensive, given problems and crisis ... there is now no one in Spain the option of having children arises . in conclusion I disagree with not having children or having one or two nothing else, that's my opinion now that people there what they like .
Marcos Ortega Ferrusola 2A
I believe that happiness can not be measured, but can be experienced in experiences, that is, has some advantages not having parents, is that you have more time to know yourself and be happy through the ups and downs that hurt him, comfort the authority of the mastered for yourself, but the anguish of not having the love of parents come to a solitude made tragica.De minors must be set by tutors who does not give them the same roze affection.
ResponderEliminarParents it is true that would be more happy if most of the time can be relaxing for them because children takes a lot of privacy and above can load so much tension that could break up a couple, but happiness walking around you the joy of a children that can not be changed.
Ultimately the children with parents and vice versa is a gift of happiness than those who can Share like never enjoy it because you never know what can happen.
I was surprised a lot to be greater happiness to childless couples , I think without children better lives , but as a woman there is one thing that excites me more than to get to raise a family day tomorrow , I'm also of the traditional mind I love big families, ami people makes me happy and what I can is more like a house full of people and children from my point of view are what bring happiness to the home, have children involves a lot of responsibility especially when they are young is to put a lot of attention , many sleepless nights , many concerns , but I think to see them grow and know that they are your flesh and blood is what greater satisfaction can give you in this world, that 's better than the smile of a child to a mother, or a mother comforting a child or simply a tequiero of one of your children , so I could not fit the head you have more happiness without children I guess everyone has an opinion about the couple and the children but very few people will be able to deny that there is nothing more beautiful than to give birth to a son / daughter.
ResponderEliminarFrom my point of view not having children is a way to more relaxed living , enjoying without much responsibility as you can give a child.
Alberto Romero Real 1ºD
ResponderEliminarThese studies do not usually pay attention. I think it depends on the person, because if you ask people to not have children if he is happy he will say yes, and vice versa. That's what I think of these surveys.
From my point of view, I would be happy with children being that I want to have children. While I respect people's decision not to have children, I do not share and do not understand how there can be people who do not want children. In the end the human beings are made to be bred, like other living things.
I want to have children because I am ready for such work, like others. I think having children that is the most beautiful thing that can happen to a person, it is the perfect culmination of the life. I also believe that this trend is not having children in these recent years, something that comes and goes. I hope that many people change idea about having children.
Alejandro Rodríguez-Caso 2ºD
ResponderEliminarI don't know if people without children are happier than parents. What I know is that for me the family is very important. When I get older I want to have children. It is a great responsibility but it gives also great satisfactions. I see it with my older brother. He and his wife are very happy. It is true that sometimes they would like to sleep more but they would never change anything. My nephew is nearly 2 years and it is really amazing how he learns to do things, talk, think. I like to play with him and the kisses and hugs he gives.
People without children have maybe other needs or priorities in life. They can do what they want. They can dedicate a lot of time to their work if they want and if it makes them happy because there are no obligations with kids. They can travel when they want and they can have a lot of hobbies, go out with friends, to the cinema, etc. They can spend all their money in things that they like or need without think I cannot afford this because my children need books for studies, clothes... Every person has to think what he expects from life and has to act in consequence.
IRENE RAPOSO 1ºC
ResponderEliminarIn my opinion for a mother to have a child must be the most beautiful and important of his life. Being mother for the first time could be one of the most beautiful life´s experiences that you could have. Nowadays, many people decide to have children and I hope, they know what this means.
As advantages we could see the love of a special person . Having a child of enjoying it, taking a stroll with him, run around with it .. from my point of view is to create another life, I raise it as you want and love him as he deserves, is better or worse .
The disadvantages may be the radical changes that will be in the life of future parents, as times longer be scarce for activities , sleep is minimal , the work will have to be doubled and profits not only be in fun or rides , now have more expenses and must reorganize the tasks , activities and investments. But such advantages may include the joy that this new being produced , despite being tired after a long day at work and need to change a diaper , there is nothing more rewarding than the smile of a baby or simply watch him sleep , or even as time passes , they grow and say " I love you, dad" , "I love you , Mom." Also to see every achievement from learning to walk , to learning to ride a bike or skates or ending at graduation professional . Besides the changes do not necessarily see themselves as disadvantaged, may serve to reorganize the lifestyle and become more responsible and adapt a schedule for the time and money reach.
In my opinion, I think that have children give a lot of happiness, but I am not the most appropriate person to opine about it because I haven't got any children yet.
ResponderEliminarOn the one hand, I think that you are very happy withouy children because they have a lot of problems and you don't have a lot of time gooing discos, going to the cinema or a bar with your friends,spending the money on yourself and a lot of more things. It is a important disadvantage for teeanger or young people, who what most like is staying in a party without any concern. However you have a important respnsability: take care of your children now, what you don't want to be when you are young.
But on the other hand, I think that when you are mum you get a different happiness. You only need see your children laught to be glad. Normally you become more responsible and stabilized person.
For example, in my family I think that my mother was happy when she was young but now she is the happiest person in the world with her two daughthers.
To sump up, I thnik that you need to have children to know when you are happier.
Nowadays most people in spain prefer not to have children, because they think that if they have children they lost their live.
ResponderEliminarFrom my point of view it is better not to have children because you have more time for you. You can travel with your husband around the world and know new cultures and lifestyle. You also can save money for you and spend it in whatever you want, if you want to buy a sportive car you can because you don´t need to travel with children. You don´t need to worry about their studies. And the main advantage of not to have children is that if in the future you want to have it you can adopt them.
There are few disadvantages but I will try to think some of them. Firstly if you have children they take care of you when you get old. They make the house happier and you can spend time with them. They can help you with the house work. You can teach them whatever you want.
In conclusion I don´t want to have children because I prefer to live my life with my husband and my friends.
I believe that we must learn to control when to have children and when not. It all depends on the situation of the family, i.e., if it is to have children must know the right age to do so. To my personally if I would, in future, have children, since it is a very beautiful thing and my religion shares it. According to the Bible, having children is to create a being as a person and increase the family Christian. If that is true that not having children is much quieter and less stressful, but that is no reason not to have it. We must learn to choose the right moment and the right age, since if one is not prepared morally it is not good to have children, because there is that maintaining an education for the children and that hard work and money. But having children is the most beautiful thing in the world I think, since when they grow up and have the use of reason, we see the great achievement that we have echo, raising a child in the way of faith. No children also has its advantages, as less spending money and more peace and quiet in the House, but I think those reasons are secondary.
ResponderEliminarTo search for the happiness goes nowhere. The best example they are the children. They simply do what they desire knowing that his parents were scolding them. The old people ones cannot live happy because they put excuses not to obtain it. If you do what you wish, you going to be happily and could to make other people happy too. The children concentrate on our acts and we are an example for they. We must to taught children to will be good and polite people in the future. I want to be a boy again to be more happy.
ResponderEliminarRosa Dominguez Bejar. 2ºA
ResponderEliminarhave children or not is something that everyone should take into account in a future , but I think that having children is not bad , in my oinion I would love to have 4 children , to have a large family because I have not been and I'm an only child .
When you have more time , it is true that you have less time but ... for that we need time? to paint us , to party , to be more interesting and not so worn after pregnancy ...
I think a child is the most beautiful that you can take less time and although it is wonderful for us that gives us life and I think we should grab that opportunity because as we have children and devote our time to them in the future they will help us when we are older and do not have the strength to move.
However there are many people who think differently to me, think they do not want children , but I think older and they `ll have you made a herror because having children is the most beautiful that exists.
Children are the base of the family so as parents, but they aren’t only the centre of a couple in case they decide not to have descendants. There are other reasons to confront a situation without children in your life.
ResponderEliminarOn the one hand, people decide to give their lives to their kids, although they can lose their freedom, and they have to acquire more responsibilities for the rest of their lives. The kids can put conditions in the life of their parents and you don’t have guarantees that they can enjoy a good life, because they can have serious problems in the future, like drugs, illnesses, alcoholism etc.
On the other hand, .children complete the family and make happy the life in couples. They would be the union between parents in case they have any problems and in fact they get it sometimes. Besides, in the future, they will take care their parents when they are ill or old.
From my point of view, people who have children are happier than people without them, however, there are people who decide to live alone or with his partner because they don’t like children and prefer a free life, spending their time travelling, working, getting money for themselves.
Alfonso Caballero 1C. I think that thehappiness does not have relation with have or not have children, since I believe that he to have children alone can make you have a sensation that is that of the happiness. The big advantages that the being has father or mother are all those big moments that you spend together with your children, another advantage of having children is that when you are major they will be is to take care of you at all time. The disadvantages that I see in having children are them siguientes:en my opinion the first disadvantage would be not to have freedom at all time since your son is your responsibility and you have to try to make it happy at all timeAnd another disadvantage would be to support your children economically since nowadays it is very difficult to support your children economically due to the economic crisis
ResponderEliminarWe are born; we grow, study, work, marry, have children, breed, age and conclude our passage through this world. That seems to be the usual way through life until recently. However, there are a lot of couples who choose to marry and strengthen their relationship without including the children in their lives.
ResponderEliminarHaving children or not is a very personal decision that can be due to various reasons, there are clear benefits for childless marriages as economic, given the crisis we are facing so great is not easy to keep one or more children, the relationship, they say this greatly diminishes the child when they come, social, and to continue making trips without having to think about the children or go out with friends partying or playing sports outside your city, or just do not like kids.
I particularly think that, at an appropriate age, I have more than one child because I want to see them born, grow , play with them, help them to ride a bike, see how their personalities are created, they want to study, then start working and finally gets a new family life as they are allowing me to me.
I guess it depends on each person. Some people believe that having children is what give meaning to their lives so when they have a baby it is the centre of their lives and they feel complete and extremely happy. If they can’t, they will go to a fertility centre for a treatment to help them have it. However, not everybody thinks like this. Some people just don’t want to have children. The general idea in society nowadays is that when you have a job and a stable life you want to have a baby and bring it up. But maybe that is the best time to enjoy other things in life like independence and do things that you like while you are young.
ResponderEliminarEverything depends on where you put your energy and what your goals are. It is very difficult to know what we really want because we are brought up in a way that we are not completely free to decide.
Personally, I haven’t thought about it seriously. All I know is that I want to do many things in my life, that are going to be part of my life and that are going to give me happiness, whether I have children or not.
I guess it depends on each person. Some people believe that having children is what give meaning to their lives so when they have a baby it is the centre of their lives and they feel complete and extremely happy. If they can’t, they will go to a fertility centre for a treatment to help them have it. However, not everybody thinks like this. Some people just don’t want to have children. The general idea in society nowadays is that when you have a job and a stable life you want to have a baby and bring it up. But maybe that is the best time to enjoy other things in life like independence and do things that you like while you are young.
ResponderEliminarEverything depends on where you put your energy and what your goals are. It is very difficult to know what we really want because we are brought up in a way that we are not completely free to decide.
Personally, I haven’t thought about it seriously. All I know is that I want to do many things in my life, that are going to be part of my life and that are going to give me happiness, whether I have children or not.
in my opinion many couples when they believe they are ready have one child or more, this does not mean that they will be happier having a son, because having and raising a child is the hardest but most beautiful things also because you enjoy much and enjoy with the success and happiness of your children, but you also suffer when they are not well. It is very difficult to know if having children will give more happiness if you don't have them, but what if it is true is that the species if none had children, human it would disappear. Many parents have moments of joy when they have children but also increase their concerns, children removes them hours for them, the first years of life of your children you have to keep track of them 24 hours a day, they need everything, they are not as other living beings that just need 1 or 2 days with mother as such birds than when learning to fly already need look no further. Having a child is a very big responsibility because you have to educate, many children are "forgotten´´by parents and end up sticking, drinking, smoking, drugs... and this is because of the poor education of parents. In my opinion, I consider myself a well educated child and with parents that always has managed to educate me and they have done it either way.
ResponderEliminarPEOPLE WITHOUT KIDS ARE HAPPIER
ResponderEliminarthe truth is I can not comment much since I do not have children but my mother always said that children are the most beautiful that she has had. I guess when you have a child your life changes completely n that you have to adapt to a series of changes overnight . and not just for two or three days but forever. I think the hardest step mother and father as occurs with the birth of the child and he can not do anything for himself and is totally dependent on their parents. I think it is from the seven or eight up when the child begins to be a bit more logically autonomous but always under the supervision of their parents.
Despite the age of majority is unthinkable that a young person today can be autonomous and you need to study hard to even find a job and is so very difficult. And with twenty-five or twenty-six when young it are a little more stable and can take the step to become independent when they find a more or less stable at a wage that allows them to keep working .
Alvaro serrano 2 e
I’m goint to talk about the advantages and the disadvantages of having a children, that, of course, it is a thing that changes your live.
ResponderEliminarI think that being a father is one of the beautiful things of the life. When I grow up I want to have three children, two boys and one girl. The people said that the children are an inconvenience to be happy but I think that it is the opposite, in my opinion the children cheer up the life. I think that the people without children feels very alone. On the one hand not having children lets you have more freedom, go out with your friends, spend the money on yourself but for the other hand the children go out of you, you take care of them and you want them. The research said that “People with kids living at home tend to have more money and are more highly educated, more religious and in better health” and Studies said that your life will be shorter.
In conclusion the life with children its more happy.
Ignacio Fernández García.
I think having children has many advantages and disadvantages , but they are not good things or bad things , depends on the time of your life you are living and what your preferences at any time , like when you're in love with someone happens if you want much do not mind doing things for her , yet when you do not want someone to do that very thing might please you if you get tired and upset. When you feel like having children really and you think you're prepared to do has to be one of the most beautiful things in the world , will surely be the person who more you want and why more ondary things, so you will not mind staying days awake, having to clean him to the doctor not to party , be more responsible and all those things have to do with babies , but when you're not really ready to be father and not think that is the point, if you have to carry that role just surely will enter a depression and everything will seem cramped and tired badly . people with small children is no more happy or less happy than others, everyone has to be happy with what you have and need at all times.
ResponderEliminarDo all couples want to have children? Do they will be happier? In the following paragraphs I will explain the advantages and disadvantages of having children.
ResponderEliminarA child in a house is a great joy because it is a young person, it gives you much encouragement to go on living because you know he needs you. It also gives you more happiness to your family because grandparents love their grandchildren or if you have a brother like you can play with.
There are also disadvantages are the responsibilities of parents for example be to get up in the night when the child is hungry or sick, also sometimes you have to stop hanging out with friends especially when the child is young because you do not you can leave alone.
It has many advantages and disadvantages but you can pick what you want and what suits you.
Sincerely I do not believe that there is a concrete response to if one is mas happily with children or without children, since every person is different and he likes a thing or other one. On my part he would say that a life without children is as if something was absent for doing in the life and that it is something that sooner or later always is good to spend the experience. Even I am small to have children but I want to have the age because I am charmed with the children and want to have all the children me it is allowed by my economy and the way in which it lives. To have son has the advantages of being mas happily seeing them to grow, taking care and enjoying them them day after day, but it has his disadvantages as sleep less, give everything what you have for them and to have a little time for one same but I believe that these disadvantages are minor next to the happiness that the children give you. And on the other hand, the advantages of not having children for those persons who prefer it so he supposes major free time, time to look after itself to one itself, to travel, to go out with your friends and has as disadvantages be little accompanied, few life around you, little experiences and new discoveries that a son can give you. I am faithful to the response of which to have children many mas gives happiness to your life and fascinating experiences.
ResponderEliminarTo have children or haven´t children isn´t related to the happiness, every person is different, some persons prefer living through the life mas crazy without any relationship and without any type of commitment .other persons prefer living with his pair and his children having a good work and one good house where to live with his great family.About my opinion I think that when we are young we must enjoy the life without any type of commitment and without worries .but as soon as already you are adult you must be more centered, to marry, to have children and a good work.The advantages of not having children it is that your you can live mas calmly without worrying for them, you can spend all the money that you have in you.For the other hand the children go out of you, you take care of them and you want them . they are very innocent and they are always happy, what they will make you happy too.For my it is very important to marry and to have a family because I think that absolutely the children give the happiness, to have a family to which love , they will be with you in the best and the worst moments
ResponderEliminarNowadays, more and more couples are refusing to have children, that’s because they want to live their life relaxed and without any problem.
ResponderEliminarChildren can be bad and annoying, but they can also be the best that had happened in your life!
On the one hand, if you decide not to have children, you and your couple will have a relaxing life and you will travel wherever you want, your life will also be cheaper and more comfortable.
On the other hand, having a baby is the most beautiful thing that can happen to your life, it is true that sometimes you will feel tired and stressed, but from my point of view, you won’t regret about it. You can teach your children everything about life, isn’t it beautiful?
Personally, one of my aspirations in my life is having children, because I find incredible how you can “fabric” a life! I know it’ll be difficult in some situations, but I think that all will pay off; it’s very happy seeing how your children grow up and change. Having children suppose spend money, but if you or your couple have a good job, that won’t be so difficult.
In conclusion, I think having children can be difficult and complicated, but it’s a very beautiful thing.
Some disadvantages of having children are for example, that you can’t sleep as you used to because you have to pay attention to your babies or children. Also, you can’t keep going out at night because someone has to take care of them. Other negative point is that some fights can appears among parents because they don’t agree about the children punishment. During the firth months, parents have to make a big effort. The most negative things about having children is that the birth is too painful.
ResponderEliminarOn the positive side, when you have a child, you joint more to your couple, to your family, and It is a very beautiful experience. You stay more at home, you start having a more familiar life style and also you can teach them all you have learnt during your live.
In conclusion, I´m a teenager so right now, I don´t think about having or not babies.
Parents with children have the need to be more united as they have to make their children happy and between them to prevent trouble for the children, but it's true and I agree that people without children having no arguments between them for the children, who have more time for them to not have to watch for anyone, and can travel, go out and do whatever they want, but must be linked together. This is often seen in marriages that are often childless married a few years and then decide to have children, and that is where the problems begin. Come on, that we who are to blame for all the failures of the married. I'd like if you were married, having my children and enjoy them every day as if it were the last. But if I have children I will have to enjoy my family and travel and go everywhere with her, without losing a minute, as you never know when it might come a son. Alejandro Kirkendall
ResponderEliminarIn my view parents with children are much happier because they can enjoy the happiness of their children and to see their children grow up with them, but its true that it depends on each person. Some people believe that having children is what give meaning to their lives so when they have a baby it is the centre of their lives and they feel complete and extremely happy. If they can’t, they will go to a fertility centre for a treatment to help them have it. However, not everybody thinks like this. Some people just don’t want to have children. The general idea in society nowadays is that when you have a job and a stable life you want to have a baby and bring it up. But maybe that is the best time to enjoy other things in life like independence and do things that you like while you are young and and that is the reason why many couples decide not to have children and thus they can travel and have more luxuries that otherwise can not do.
ResponderEliminarSUSANA CARO FERRAND 1ºD
We all have been children in a great stage of our life, and surely, our parents also would think their selves the question of ... am I happier with a son or without children? Probably, if we don´t want kids in our lifes, we wouldn´t bear ourselves, because we all have been kids and we all have questioned to our mother, father and friends if worth it to have children with your pai, your boyfriend or you girlfriend.
ResponderEliminarI think that to be parent is one of the things most important in the life, when we think about we are going to be the father of a kid, your kid! And you will have to educate like you want, considering that he is going to do and thinking like you have told him or her. It is necessary to reproduce, a part of that is a biological need, so if we don’t do it, we will ending wiped out of the planet, but in many years. To be parent is a sign of love what God learnt us and we have to be it, providing that one could. Also I would like do a question… Who will look after of us when we will be elderly? … Our children and our grandsons!!
Its very difficult for me to speak about this topic because this phase of my life is very far away but I will say I agree with the woman in the video, be parents
ResponderEliminaris a very important decission and every body has to make the decission taking time to think about it and think over how you life can change if you have children. I guess
it has to be an incredible experience to give the life to somene who has the same appearance that you and your wife, and to teach them all about the world but it knowed by
everybody that it is very hard too. If you decide to have children you are accepting to miss your time, you know that you are not going to leave them alone in the next
10 years, so you can not go out, travel... at less not like before. I think each person has to think it well because it?s very serious to bring people to the world and
at the same time, the people who have decided to have kids, I?m sure they have done it with a lot of illusion and hapiness so they should be happy with it, but for me
it?s very understable don?t want to have children also because it is a very personal decision.
I think for a mother to have a child must be the most beautiful and important of his life. On one hand it is a big responsibility and that changes your life dramatically. Today the woman is incorporated into the labor market and their career has an important place in your life having a child makes it very difficult to continue with these activities in the same way although there are laws now that the benefit as reduced working hours. In Spain is yet difficult task to combine a working mother. On the other hand is a unique experience, an absolute surrender to another person that depends entirely on you and at the same time makes you grow as a person and acquired responsibility
ResponderEliminarAdvantages and disadvantages of being childfree:
ResponderEliminarAlmost everyone is a parent, and if you like to feel like you are part of the current society, then parenting is for you. If you decide not being a parent in your 20s 30s, and 40s can mean spending a lot of time solo, as your friends are meeting for play-dates with their children. Even when the little ones are not around, the conversation is always about what are they doing…
Also, having a child means that you will have at least fifteen or eighteen of endless slavery where everything you will preend to do will be determined by your children.
You are never bored. For a person with a low social life, having a child might be the key. You simply won´t have time to be bored, because you will be taking them to the doctor or easyer, too tired as think to go out… such as you will be dreaming with the bed moment.
You have time for relationships and for self-care. Everybody love spending time alone with their partner and that one of the reason to not rising a family, other people affirm spend his, little too, free time caretaking needs or meet with friend socially.
Sum up, being childfree or not is a personal decission very questionated nowadays, that in my opinion have many advantages and disavantages that I hope to have time to reflect.
I think the choice to have children or not depends on the couple and what their life is like. It is a serious decision to make because when you have children you have them for life. It is a permanent choice and you have to be sure it is what you really want.
ResponderEliminarPeople think that when you have children you lose your freedom and in a sense this is true because you have to look after them all the time especially when they are small but it also has the advantage that it brings many positive things too. Also if both parents work someone else can look after them while they work, or members of the family like grandparents or in a nursery school. It can give you a greater sense of responsibility and this is also important. When you are older you can enjoy grandchildren and there is someone to look after you in your old age. If you don´t have children there is nobody, or at least not anyone with the same type of bond.
It is also true that having children is a big decision economically because you have to feed and clothe them and provide for them until they are able to work, and this is a problem childless couples don´t have, but they don´t have the rewarding experiences of being parents either. Nowadays with birth control everyone can choose if they want to have children or not.
I do not agree at all with these investigations as a person with no children you have nothing in life and have to feel very lonely although I think it has its advantages and disadvantages. I believe that the benefits of not having children are to enjoy much more free time and a large decrease in far fewer responsibilities and liabilities, the disadvantages of this I think is not to have people who give the kind of love that gives a child or a continuity of your family but I think the worst is loneliness and not having anyone to look after you as an elder . The benefits of having children is to process the love and know that there are people who depend on you infinitely , disadvantages include reduced time , the great responsibility involved , having to educate them, the great expense of money involved and what is experienced by them. Although it seems that having children has many more disadvantages than advantages is not so because in my opinion the benefits involved are infinitely rewarding.
ResponderEliminarLUIS BECA 1C
I don’t think that people without kids are happier but I think that if you have children you have advantages and disadvantages.
ResponderEliminarOn the one hand, kids give you a lot of happy moments because they are family and it is very good to be together. It is sad to be alone at home. All the people I know they are happy because they have sons and daughters, so, this must be good. If you have kids you will never be alone. When the kids and big they can help the parents and this is very good. All the family can help each other.
On the other hand, if you have kids you have a lot of problems because you have to worry about a lot of things. They have to go to school, they can be ill and you have to go to the doctor, they can have problems and you have to help them always. You have to buy a lot of things, and it is expensive
In conclusion, I personally think that it is better to have kids, althought it can have disadvantages also.
plans in my life, not hard time having children.
ResponderEliminarI agree with the survey that people without children are happier, that although children are a blessing you, you spend a lifetime worrying about if they will be making the right decisions.
I know it's a little selfish of me, but my goal in life is to know the world, cultures, places, etc.. and the truth is that a child can not do much.
and one with its own problems is very overwhelming, because when you have a child you care not only about your problems, even if you care more for your children because you fear committing nonsense,
you wonder where you will be, who will be fine and if
and so one never has time for himself, because even when you keep oppressing become independent, for his work, his family etc.. And when at last get let live your life to start living yours because too many years have passed and you're old, and you've lost your life.
I'm sorry, but I love life, and I refuse flatly to give it up.
so if at first if I think I'll be happier and hopefully not spend 60 years and I have so I do not feel old and abandoned, because I hate the feeling of loneliness.
I think that in a family everyone can be happy but each member of the family is happy in its own way. Young children are very happy because they have no concerns only think just enjoy and learn. When they are being more seniors start to have more responsibilities and empiexan with studies. Parents are happy to see their children happy but have more concerns than sons. Grandparents are happy to see their grandchildren and their children happy even though they know it approaches them time to go. his is in families that are well structured, families are also not to be happy even if they will never be entirely and that will always have something to worry about a huff, a fight, an argument... All families want to be happy but this does not always happen.
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